Shaking hands and making new friends and understanding the WHY behind LittleBox Social

First off – I need to express my gratitude for the overwhelmingly positive response to the launch of LittleBox Social! Between my regular blog readers, Facebook friends, LinkedIn connections and Twitter followers, I feel like I have a whole stadium of folks cheering me on – and I can’t begin to tell you how motivating that is! I’ve experienced moments of isolation and doubt in the last few weeks, but if I ever need a boost – I look back at your comments and know that you are there.  Even if you are skeptical or just curious, I know you are watching, and that accountability helps drive me towards success!

The other thing that has made this week (and it’s only Wednesday) amazing  – I’ve had some client meetings – yes – real live potential clients!  People that actually need this

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It’s a little early to declare victory but it’s still how I feel! 

service I’m offering; people that reached out to me to ask how the whole process works and to find out how I can help them! While it’s way too early to call these deals signed, sealed and delivered, the validation of this Big Idea gives me confidence that I’m on the right track! Cue the Obvious and overused Sally Field Oscars Gif:
Even more important than that boost of confidence is that I’m meeting some talented business owners with some truly compelling stories. One of the reasons I departed “cubeville” is that I felt I was too far removed from impacting the customer experience. Like so far removed I could barely even see the customer in my work. And in the end – I know that’s what motivates me. The opportunity to help people tell their stories to the world – that’s a gift! It’s too early in the process for me to divulge any details – but I can’t wait to help them shout their stories from the rooftop!

Here’s what’s so striking – while the people I met yesterday had somewhat traditional titles – Jewelry Designer and Financial Advisor; in just a brief conversation, I learned their backstories and more about WHY they are small business owners. Both opened up about their “journey” in a way that inspired me to help them. In these conversations, I started creating solutions for them that I had never thought of – on the spot and in real time. Ways to use Social Media platforms not just to drive more business, but also to help them establish their reputation as a business and community leader. You ever have a meeting where you felt more energized than when you started? Oh so rare for me in my Cubeville Days. While I was taking down notes about the “to do’s” ahead of me, it didn’t drain my energy, it sparked it!

Bottom line:  These conversations and that process is helping me clarify the “Why?” for me creating LittleBox Social! Not an epiphany or a ta-da moment, but instead as I listened to myself in these conversations, I gained an appreciation for my own passion. I heard myself describe creative ways of marketing their story, of creating new views of their product and of focusing on what really excites them. imagesAnd even though I was asking for their business, it felt like I was offering to be their partner. That, my friends, is the absolute sweet spot for me. The Raison D’Etre – Making a difference for others, adding value to a community, fostering innovation and inspiration, getting work done for others so that they may have a better life.  LittleBox Social gives me the opportunity to do this every day with people in my neighborhood. I can’t ever forget it or take it for granted!

The moment you all have been waiting for (or – something to read while enjoying a good cup of coffee!)

Ok – friends here it is!!  It’s time to reveal my first Big Idea on a new way of making a living! Are you ready?  I hope so, because it’s been your support that has helped me propel through this phase so quickly! Remember my criteria?

  • Enhance my local community
  • Use a skill set that I have, and has some stretch for me to grow
  • Look towards the future – “goes after” the millennial group and younger
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http://www.littleboxsocial.com

The name of the business: LittleBox Social

LittleBox  – Small Business – think of it as the antithesis of Big Box Business,  and

Social – as in Social Media.

Bottom line: Helping small business owners attract and retain customers using social media strategies. Unleash potential for local entrepreneurs – I truly believe amazing things come in little boxes.  I’ll help them wherever they land on the spectrum of social media usage – from helping start ups develop channel strategy and content calendars to working with legacy businesses refine their strategy and refreshing their channels and messaging.   Or even better, teach these community leaders and their teams how to efficiently tackle the opportunity. I have so many great ideas in this space-  they are literally busting out of my brain!

This Big Idea came to me about a year ago when the MN chapter of the ARCS Foundation started really dabbling in Social media – we knew there was potential to engage members, future members, and donors, but we didn’t really have a plan, or extra arms and legs to do the work.  We were lucky enough to have an smart intern put together a strategy, but that still left us with relying on a busy board member to do the actual content creation. Of course, it fell to the bottom of everyone’s to-do list for the organization. And then, I saw that same thing happen in our 15 sister chapters across the nation. I remember thinking: Now that’s a market need, I’d be happy to throw a few dollars at this problem if I could find someone to help.

Several months passed and I started studying how large companies leveraged social media more closely – from promoting special products to building a loyalty to responding to customer issues and general PR. I knew (from my Big Box experience) that these results were from a team of professionals whose “Day job” was to create the strategy and execute the plan. And again, I knew that small business didn’t have the resources to do this on their own, it was likely a “hobby” for some of the more social media savvy entrepreneurs.

Then, I actually started talking to small business owners – like really small business owners- single stores run by Mom and Pop, small restaurants, salons, hardware stroes – authentic Main Street players. And like the our non-profit, most reported that they knew they needed to “do something about this social media thing”.  When I asked them about millenials and growth – they all reported that “YES!” they need to figure that out. But didn’t know how.

And out of that – the seed for LittleBox Social was planted.  And it started to grow. Remember the “Whole Board”? Earlier this year, I started checking those items off, one by one. I did enough research to know that there was a viable business model. I confirmed that a domain name was available for my desired business name, and bought it.  That was the point at which I knew I was approaching the ledge, and the next move I needed to make was to commit to this effort full time.  I sat on that for about 30 days before I made my next move. Consider it my cooling off period to make sure that I wasn’t being foolish.

30 days later, I took another hard look at the business model and took the leap – this one had a little more investment – I actually registered the name “LittleBox Advisors, LLC” with Secretary of State. That company name allows for me to do consulting work on the side as well, so LittleBox Social is a “Division” of the LLC. I hired a trademark attorney to help with that process. I hired a couple of graphic designers to work on a logo.

And after all of that – when I was really at the ledge and had all but committed to doing this. All of the work had been done on off hours, weekends, etc.. It was time to fully invest and quit my day job. That day was March 22nd.   It’s been 42 days since that moment of leaping over the edge.  Only 21 days since I actually started this venture full time.

Not bad for a soft launch! As I mentioned in an earlier post, not everything is perfect. The website needs some work, and I have exactly 23 things on my to do list for today.  But we are launched! I received some advice early in this process. For every day you delay a launch, you delay revenue. Don’t be afraid to go to market when it’s hot – you’ll figure out the details as you go!  So when opportunity knocked via a Robbinsdale Chamber of Commerce meeting last week, I knew I had to launch!

Speaking of launch – please check out my website, like my page, follow my twitter, etc. etc!

Website: www.littleboxsocial.com

Facebook: www.facebook.com/littleboxsocial

Twitter: https://twitter.com/LittleBoxSocial

Pinterest: www.pinterest.com/LittleBoxsocial

Again, I am grateful for this opportunity and the support that you all have given me – including my steadfast partner in life. Without my husband Scott’s encouragement and rational advice, I would not have made this leap!

Lastly – I would be remiss if I didn’t close with “the ask” – if you know of a small business who could use a little extra help with social media – let me know!  I love making connections and helping out great causes and businesses.

There’s life in these seeds – quite literally and figuratively!

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Broccoli, lettuce, tomatoes, basil and spinach – oh my! 

Will you look at that? In just 5 short days, these veggie seeds I planted on Saturday have sprouted! And while I had no intention of directly linking this activity to my new venture, there is a connection. It’s sprouting too! I’ve had a great first week of making connections and test-running my new product. It’s received a great response and I think I have some “takers”. More than a few meetings from that stack of business cards – even if I only convert two of those meetings in to clients – that’s a good success ratio for me.  I can’t wait to share my idea with all of you next week! One of you already guessed it – thanks Joel Oine for not telling the world!

These little seedlings are fragile, and growing perilously fast.  You gardeners know, the issue at this stage – they get so tall (or leggy) so quickly, the stem actually collapses under the weight of the new sprout.  Next week, I’ll need to go through with a small pair of scissors and cull out the weak sprouts. That’ll give the healthiest the best chance of flourishing.

Sounds a lot like business doesn’t it? With finite resources of a single person start-up, there are only so many leads that I can invest real time into. Eventually, I’ll be able to tell if a lead will result in a revenue opportunity, or if the person I just met was being “nice” and offering to meet with me.  I’ll need to narrow down my audience eventually to make sure I’m not parsing out my time too much.  There’s a lot of curiosity and demand for information on the service that I’m offering – but the real question is can I turn that into enough cash to make a living? I have developed a model, but I am far from being able to prove it out.  Give me 60 days and I’ll be able to tell you if THIS big idea from the little box of ideas is a winner. In the meantime, it’ll take about that long for these seedlings to turn into food.

I swear, I did not set this up to be such a direct metaphor. But now that it is – you’ll get to know these plants over the summer! We’ll laugh, we’ll cry, we’ll rejoice together – you, me and these plants.  Some won’t make it through, and others will thrive and feed my family well.  When you next hear from me, I’ll be spilling the beans on my business – I’m sure you are all on pins and needles (NOT!)

Enjoy your weekend everyone!

Who knew? Business cards aren’t just for free lunch drawings!

In all of my 30 years of corporate life, I’d guess that I’ve handed out no more than 200 business cards. That’s an average of – 6.4 cards per year.  In fact, the last time my job title changed in “Big Blue Boxville”, I didn’t even bother getting them reprinted!  All of my clients were internal, and on the rare occasion that I did meet with external contacts, they already had my information. I recently cleaned out archaeological grade boxes from jobs I’d left in those three decades, and found no less than 6 boxes of business cards from various jobs. Barely touched. For some reason, I felt I was being wasteful by throwing the away. Or I thought maybe I’d pose as a Training Manager for a big bank one day…. Either way, you’ll be happy to know I pitched them without a blink!

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My new normal – handing out business cards by the stack. Not enough room in a sleek business card case! 

Here’s the crazy part – In the last 24 hours, I’ve handed out more than 50 of my shiny new cards to interested parties! And likely 20-30 more tomorrow! I had no idea the networking opportunities would actually multiply like bunnies the way they are – I guess my gut last week was telling me that I needed to be really ready for this point – and I’m thankful I listened! Today was another opportunity to practice my pitch – and believe it or not, I have two really hot leads from it – both already have meetings set up next week.

The venue today? A Davanni’s in a big SW Suburb. The group? A local business networking group. You could call them “Referrals are us.” I’m suspect about their structure, as I think it will eventually turn into an ask for membership dues… but for now – I’ll take the practice and the exposure. And the opportunity to put my card in the hands of people who might be interested in my new venture. I may join and pay the dues just to see how this works!

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Different than the idea box – this is a temporary solution I’m hoping technology solves! 

Even more incredible – I now have this stack of about 60 business cards from my recent meetings!  I need to do something with them; It’s been forever since I’ve had a rolodex, or a card filing system.   And the thought of typing contact information into a contact database, of course, makes me want to gouge my eyeballs out with a dull pencil.

What’s that you say? There’s an app for that?

Darn tootin’ there’s an app – there are at least 10 that are highly rated! I’m looking through the ratings on them right now, and in a perfect world, I’d take a pic of the card with my phone and it would OCR it right into my contact list. At least that’s what I’m aiming for…. Then the real test of faith in technology comes. For all of these cards I’ve collected – will I throw them away? Or will I hold onto them like precious little momentos of my first couple of weeks in business for myself?

And before you ask  – I’m still not going tell you what I’m up to until next week. But here’s what I can tell you – in case you are worried that I’m in some kind of crazy money making scheme – the business I’ve started was my own idea, not a franchise. I’m not selling anything in the form of cleaning products, nutritional supplements, candles, cosmetics, food storage containers, shakes, juices, baskets, decorative items, investment products or the like. Is Herbalife even around anymore?

Until next week, you can keep guessing! Go ahead – see if you can play CSI with the picture of my business cards at the top. If you figure it out – I’ll buy you a coffee!  Now, I’m off to find an app that makes sure I can capture the contact information for the three versions of lifecoaches that I met today – along with the insurance guy, the CPA, the banker, the broker and the candlestick maker.

Update: No tomato soup incidents reported!

Good news friends! Today’s “Opportunity” went off without a hitch – I have a couple of warm/hot leads, met some great people and have already set up a couple of follow-up meetings!  I managed to get through my introduction, handing

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Big girl shoes that match each other! 

out business cards and making my pitch without any coffee, soup or dessert issues. And I wore shoes that match each other, so that was also a win! (This all probably only makes sense if you read yesterday’s blog)

With the warm reception I’ve received so far this week, I’ve decided to “go public” with this idea on Monday, May 2nd! Stay tuned for more details on what this big idea is shaping up to be!

Thank you all for your support in the last few days- your words of encouragement mean so much to me! While my darling husband is truly the president of my Fan Club, cheers from my Facebook, Twitter and LinkedIn friends help me along this path!

 

All those things you hear about working exclusively from home – are true.

Today marks the beginning of the third week of this new venture – and I am still so very grateful for the opportunity I have. But friends, I’m also a feeling a little tapped out. As I wrote late last week, I’ve been pushing to hit my own self imposed deadline so that I can make a good impression on my potential target market tomorrow at a luncheon. Here’s the great news –Thanks to a weekend of uninterrupted work time, I’ve checked all of the “must have things” off of my to-do list.

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  • Website – Check (Although not perfect, it’ll work for now)
  • Logo- Check
  • Social Media Sites of various flavors – Check
  • Business Cards – Check
  • Brochure – Check
  • Sales Pitch – Check

Now, the only thing that may be standing in my way of successfully marketing this idea is spilling tomato soup on my shirt. Well, that and they may not like what I have to offer. But I’ll focus on not spilling the soup, since I can control that.

I know, intelligent readers, you understand what each of those “checks” represent. Several hours of work (mostly by myself, although I called a pro to help me with the logo)… lots of the work is both tedious and brain draining at the same time. Creating something from quite literally nothing, pulling that out of your imagination through your fingers onto a computer screen – into something that seems remotely marketable – that’s hard work!

Since I had three straight days of solitude in which to accomplish all of this (Seriously, I didn’t leave my house and yard from Thursday afternoon until I picked up my husband at the airport last night), I can now report on the inside scoop of working exclusively at a home office. As I’m sure you’ve read – there are pros and cons.  I love the feeling of being in complete control of my schedule. I can work on what I want, when I want. 3:00 AM? Sounds like a great time to open an Instagram account. 9:00 PM? It’s a perfect time to design my business cards and send them off to the printer. I guess I don’t really need that much sleep – seems like 5 hours a night was all I can seem to focus on these days. That’s right – I need focus to actually sleep.

Here’s the truth about this idea of Entrepreneurism, especially in the start up phase. You are never NOT working. NEVER.  While my mind is no longer racing at 100MPH – it’s always moving – never quiet – always full of colorful images. It’s like being on stimulants, but completely natural. It’s so very energizing! Except for when your body tells you – enough. Stop typing. Stop writing. Stop texting, posting, tweeting, drawing.  Time to relax. Because you only have yourself to blame if something doesn’t get done (Which I love!), I just keep going. I’m like the little engine that could. This is an over developed skill for me – I can just churn out work for hours at a time if I can concentrate and am properly motivated. My body really does give out before my mind does. What a great problem to have, right?

Here are some tips that some highly productive and professional work at homers have given me – perhaps you have more for me!

  • Hygiene still matters. Bathe every day, brush your teeth and comb your hair. Rolling out of bed and starting to work in your pajamas may sound like a dream, but I can attest to the fact that you tend to just stay in your PJ’s all day and then eventually crawl back into bed. You do that more than two days in a row, and you can imagine the issue there.
  • Along the same lines – wear real clothes – preferably CLEAN. Clothes with buttons, zippers and ties. Choose your clothes from a hanger or a drawer – not from the perennial pile of stuff that be washed (See #1)IMG_0057
  • Put shoes on EVERY DAY. Even if you don’t need to. Slippers don’t count. Flip flops don’t really count either. Oh – and they need to match each other – no mismatches! Shoes will help you with the next one:
  • GET UP AND WALK AROUND! Yes- that’s me shouting. This past Sunday – I was horrified to look at my fitbit at 6:00pm and see that I had only taken 1,250 steps. You read that right. I had at least done some yardwork on Saturday; Sunday was too rainy to do any garden tours – I didn’t even go and get the paper from the front door. There could have been a Purple hippo hanging out in my front yard and I wouldn’t have noticed. If “Sitting is the new smoking”, I’ll be dead from butt cancer before I get my first client.
  • Don’t forget to eat. Now – if you know me you’d say – not possible – Jenny loves to cook and enjoy a good meal. True. But left to my own devices, I’ll eat a Lean Cuisine every day for a month if it’s fast and hassle free. These days, I eat breakfast after working for a couple of hours, consumed lunch when I remembered, around 2 or 3.  Dinner usually was around 7 or 8. It’s like I’m back in college.
  • Make sure you have a recycling bin and a garbage can in your work area/office. I was amazed at how quickly the diet coke cans line up. Like little support pods of caramel coloring and fake sugar. When I’ve made my way through a pot of coffee, I average a can of diet coke every two hours and doesn’t stop until dinner. I promised I was going to take them downstairs to the big recycling bin… yep – that didn’t happen.
  • Tear yourself away from the computer. Look outside, pet the dog, touch some dirt and nature. Talk to a stranger. Your body and brain will thank you.  Don’t pick up your phone and use that as your computer’s surrogate!
  • Lastly and most importantly if you live in a quiet neighborhood and have no other humans in your house, don’t let the quiet overwhelm you. I swear that for about three hours on Sunday, I was working in a space capsule floating just above the atmosphere. A radio on in another room helped me get over that creepy feeling fast.

I know this phase of my business venture won’t last forever. Before I can count to 100, I’ll have emails and phone calls to return, proposals to write and all sorts of outside stimulation. But for right now – this is the longest period of sustained isolated lock-down I have ever been in. I have a lot to show for it – I’m ready to take advantage of this opportunity! As long as I don’t show up, business cards in had, sales pitch memorized and promptly fall asleep in my bowl of soup!

 

Weekend Edition- seed starting

and I hope seeds spring from these little pellets!

Who said this blog has to be allllll business? Not me!! Here’s the truth- in the very core of my being, I am a gardener. The idea of sitting in my office on such a gorgeous day certainly does not appeal! 

I’m a little late in starting the seeds inside because here in Minnesota, we usually plant a veggie garden the weekend of Mother’s Day.  Planting them this late doesn’t give them the full benefit of a sunny window in the spring time. That doesn’t mean I’m not going to try! Why purchase the seeds and little pellets and let them sit there with the hope andpromise that I’ll get to it next spring?  Procrastination nation! 

I’m going try to start them and see what happens! What’s the worst that could happen? My tomato plants and broccoli plants don’t bear fruit according to the schedule on the package? I’m OK with that. Because sometimes things just don’t happen on schedule. I’m more interested in them happening eventually! 

Stay tuned to for the saga that is my veggie garden!

Looking a Little bleak right now- anybody want some garlic chives?

 When you don’t have a big enough whiteboard….

Opportunity minus 4 days! As anticipated, I have been plugging away at the tasks I need to get ready for this “epic” opportunity I have next week. OK – epic might be overstating it. But it’s epic enough that I need to organize my chaotic thoughts about all of the work.  One of the few things I miss about working in Cubeville (aside from all of my BFFAW’s and the SpecialK bars from the cafeteria every Wednesday) is I could ALWAYS find a whiteboard that I could use to empty my brain of disorganized thoughts.  I invested in a 4ft X 3ft whiteboard from a cool used office furniture store in Northeast Minneapolis, but I can’t really justify the investment in more! Not to mention – eventually you need to erase a whiteboard for it to be really serviceable. The idea of all those thoughts now smeared on that nasty dry marker eraser makes me sad. Yes, I took pics of them with my cellphone, but it was never the same as being able to have them stare back at me – demanding my attention morning, noon and night! Once these moments of brilliance hit my photo stream, it’s like they were dead to me. So I knew I had to find a non-permanent, low cost way of capturing the ideas, then making sure they recaptured my attention.

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A lifesaver!

Earlier this week, I happened to spot these GIANT Post-it notes at Target, and grabbed some on impulse. Since then, I’ve used them to literally line my home office walls with ideas, sketches, flow charts, brainstorming lists, to do lists.  I guess I’m a visual learner and thinker; I respond to the stimulation of the written word. Maybe because I was an avid reader as a child?  I knew this accelerated timing would require a new way of satisfying this need – and I’m thankful for 3M and their designers for accommodating me!

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Hey RFC’ers – you might spy some old tchotchke’s I dug out of a box on the window sill!

 

So, aside from my wallpapering the office with these beauties, I’ve also spent quite a bit of time putting together a website for this new venture (you can see the wireframe up on the wall). I would say “DESIGN” but it’s clear after this exercise that in fact, I am NO Designer! I’ll chalk that up to needing overly developed powerpoint slide deck building skills  and how it must have stunted my creativity. I’m sure it has nothing to do with the fact that I’ve never had training of any kind for visual or graphic design.  But here’s the reality – I need a website by Tuesday.  I need it because I’ll be handing out business cards at the meeting – and what kind of a business card doesn’t have a website on it these days? Only those that were printed before 1994!

So – I rolled up my sleeves, put together a wireframe and found as much free (and high quality) photostock as I could that was relevant to the venture and started writing. And writing. And editing. And editing more.  And I finally pushed the “publish” button yesterday. And I’ve already made about 20 changes since then. So – rather than give up on the opportunity, I’m going to take the same advice I give to people all the time- don’t let perfect get in the way of excellence. And don’t let excellent get in the way of good.  I’ve promoted this idea as a way of combatting fear of starting – Doing something is always better than doing nothing!

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And don’t let excellent get in the way of good!

As of right now – I think I can get close to halfway between good and excellent by the time that first business card hits the pocket of one of my future clients on Tuesday.  I’ll keep plugging away at it over the weekend and get some hard feedback when my trusted advisor (husband) and by the time I meet with people on Tuesday – It’ll be pretty darn good!

It’s time for me to get back on task and keep marking things off on my list. Next up is working on my “pitch” I wonder how many Big yellow post-it’s I’ll use for that process? I’m guessing at least three – Or maybe I should just erase my whiteboard and start with that. Oh my – isn’t that living dangerously?!

I have a confession to make…

Please, let me explain. What if I told you, intelligent readers, that I have had an initial “Big Idea” selected and under development for a few months? Would you be disappointed? Unsubscribe? Unfriend and unfollow? I hope not! I would imagine most of you would say “Of course you do, Jenny. We all know your Mama Patsy didn’t raise a fool!” You are right, I almost always have something in my back pocket  – and I’ll never stop living by the Scout motto of “be prepared”.

The truth is that I’ve had this working model of an idea that’s been chewing at my mind for the past year. It’s also true that I’m not 100% sure that this is THE BIG IDEA – you know, the ONE. But it does meet all of my criteria so far – working with small business owners in my community, and it certainly is a growth industry.  So as I was wrapping up my time as an employee (of someone else), I used my off work hours to put my “start up” skills to the test. Slowly and methodically, I checked items off of the “to do list” that  I created on my white board for this business. I’d estimate that I’m a good 50% of the way through much of the big items on that list for this business. LLC is formed, domain names are secured, logo is under development, as is the website. So, a few of the big rocks are complete, and most are in some phase of development.

Why confess now? Because I have the amazing good fortune of a window of opportunity open right in front of my eyes and immediately.

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Ok, My challenge is not THIS hard!  (Source: imgur/user/Bloodystupidjohnson)

I have the opportunity to get in front of my Target Market for this venture next Tuesday – an informal gathering and luncheon where if I play my cards right, I’ll be able to introduce myself and my venture and make a pitch to the room.  And after speaking to one of the organizers, the pump seems to be primed and my “product” is in demand by this group! That means I have SIX days to get the requisite tasks completed so that I can get in front of this group with confidence and start making connections that will to future revenue.  It’s the moment to answer some big questions:

 

  • Do I take a risk and go to market with a good idea rather the THE BIG IDEA?
  • Can I get enough of the work done in the next 6 days to be able to introduce myself and my product?
  • Is the risk of going to market prematurely worth the potential reward of moving this idea into a revenue generating business?

If I chose to crawl through this window while it’s still open, the current BIG IDEA needs to come out of the box it’s been hiding in and into my field of focus. I mean laser focus. Six days is not a lot of time to bring something like this to market.

My Instinct is yelling right now – “GO GO GO! YES YES YES!  Seize the moment Jenny! Why think twice!?!?”

It’s not so much about fear  of failure – I expect to have setbacks. I expect to flop some of the time. I even expect to be summarily dismissed by some of my future clients. The last doesn’t scare me aI know that resistance is truly a sign that I have their attention and they are interested.

It’s not about fear of hard work, either. I’ve been successful in high pressure situations before.  I can muscle through work for 12 hours at a time if I am motivated. Nope, that’s not it.

Could it be… Fear of Success? The name of this blog is “Start to Succeed”. I selected that name to align with my belief that amazing people with great ideas aren’t successful because they don’t get past the ideation stage. They can’t move off the dime – they forget to actually start.  We like that brainstorming phase – it’s a super comfy place. Coffee shops and sticky notes and fun color markers. Meetings with cool people, sharing your dreams and ideas, and it’s all sunshine and rainbows. Endless blogs and articles to poor over and take notes about. Hundreds of Ted Talks that you should really absorb before you start. So much to do before you start.  WRONG!

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KNOCK KNOCK, dear Jenny – the Universe is at the door with a message! This is a moment not to squander! While it’s no “moonshot” or a cure for cancer, it’s a big stretch for one person to execute in six days. So I reject any fear of failure, or fear of success while I brew another pot of coffee.  It’s time to spin up the grand-daddy of all to do lists and plunge into the work.

What do you think, intelligent readers? Can I get it all done?  Would you bet on me?

What’s that? I forgot to tell you all what my idea is?? Nope – I didn’t forget.  Remember, Mama Patsy didn’t raise a fool; I know not to show all my cards until I need to! Stay tuned for more on my progress through the next 6 days. And after I’ve checked all of my items off the to do list, and I’m ready to go public – you all will be the first to know!

 

 

A different kind of Monday morning     

 

It’s really happening. The reality of working for myself is settling in clearly now.

For all of my friends who make their living generally between the hours of 8:00AM and 5:00PM Monday through Friday – you know the feeling you get on Sunday afternoons. The feeling that in a few hours, your short break from work is over. The feeling that you hope your calendar isn’t too crammed with difficult conversations and tasks right away on Monday because you would rather sit with a cup of good coffee and organize your thoughts after having a wonderful weekend with family and friends. The feeling of steeling your heart as you wait for the inevitable politics to start diminishing your effectiveness. That feeling that you shoog Post!  uld have worked over the weekend to make it a better Monday than it has been lately.  I don’t know; maybe that was just how I felt on Sunday in the late afternoon.

We made a trip up to the cabin this past weekend – a nice long visit focused on construction of our little bunkhouse. Usually, as we drive back – that feeling creeps back into my consciousness and I avoid looking at my emails until we get home, unpacked, settled into Sunday Night television – just because I’m not ready.  Yesterday, when that impulse hit me, I realized the situation had changed. Instead of dreading the emails in my Inbox  – I grabbed my computer immediately when we got home Sunday afternoon and happily refreshed my inbox – and I was thankful to see correspondences from new contacts and former colleagues! The idea of being grateful to see new emails only reinforces that there is a different way of life out there for me.

Waking up to a completely free Monday was no less than liberating and soul lifting. A whole day where I choose activities that will bring me personal and professional value. It’s not about playing or being on vacation, it’s really about a new approach to earning a living.   Today, I chose to get on my scooter and cogitate on some Big Ideas I’ve had.

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I bought this beauty a couple of years ago and have already put 2,000 miles on it. Not just going for fun rides, but for everyday errands, and to the office. I do that because it makes me happy and makes me feel connected to my community. This morning, I took my scooter on some errands and slowly made my way through my little town of Robbinsdale. I stopped in at local businesses that I had passed by in favor of a big box. I bought meat from Hackenmuellers Butcher Shop. I stopped and chatted with a customer from Paeonia Florist – he wanted to tell me about how much he liked riding a scooter when he was younger.

IMG_7728 2That’s the kind of stimulation I need to unlock the creative part of my brain. Meet new people, have conversations that are not driven by anything other than a willingness to chat. Nothing to gain or lose from anyone. While working in a large organization means you have lots of BFF’s, the chances of having a truly stimulating conversation with a complete stranger are very low.

The definition of success is changing for me. Instead of just going through the motions and scheduling the next meeting or creating the next slide that communicates complex information effectively, I’m thinking about impact to my neighborhood. How can I make my community a better place? Today’s scooter ride helped me focus on one of my big questions – who shall I serve? I parked in the garage feeling even more inspired than when I started my day. In fact,

I eagerly refreshed my inbox and found a few more notes from friends and contacts.

How cool is that for a different kind of Monday?  I’m sure it won’t always feel this fresh and this liberating. I know there will be plenty of hard work for me ahead and I’m incredibly grateful for the opportunity to try. I can’t wait to see what this week holds in store for me!